At Denise Wellington Funeral Services, we understand the profound role that poetry can play in honoring the life of a loved one. Poems, in particular, can offer great comfort and solace during times of grief. One such poem that has deeply touched the hearts of many is “Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep” by Mary Elizabeth Frye.
Frye, an American housewife and florist, composed this poem in 1932 to comfort a family friend who was grieving the loss of her mother. Over the years, this heartfelt poem has been embraced by many for its powerful message of eternal presence and peace.
The words of “Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep” reflect on life, death, and the enduring presence of the spirit. The opening lines, “Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there, I do not sleep,” convey a message of transcendence and reassurance. Each verse beautifully captures the essence of a continued presence beyond physical existence.
Lyrics for Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there, I did not die.
“Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep” is a timeless piece that has brought peace to countless individuals over the years. It is frequently chosen for funerals due to its comforting message. Its soothing imagery and heartfelt words provide peace during sorrowful times, reminding the bereaved that their loved one’s spirit endures.
When planning a funeral service, selecting readings that hold personal significance can be a meaningful way to honor your loved one. If “Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep” resonates with your family, consider incorporating it into the service. It can be read aloud by a family member, included in the funeral program, or displayed as part of a memorial tribute.
If you would like to discuss incorporating “Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep” or other meaningful funeral poems into your loved one’s service, please get in touch. We also invite you to explore our extensive collection of popular funeral hymns, and funeral readings.
