At Denise Wellington Funeral Services, we understand the profound role that music plays in honouring the life of a loved one. Hymns, in particular, offer comfort and solace during times of grief. One such hymn that has deeply touched the hearts of many is “Abide with Me.”
This cherished Christian hymn was written by Henry Francis Lyte in 1847 as he faced his own death from tuberculosis. It is most often sung to the tune “Eventide” by the English organist William Henry Monk.
The lyrics of “Abide with Me” reflect on life, faith, and the enduring presence of God. The opening lines, “Abide with me; fast falls the eventide,” express a yearning for companionship and support as darkness approaches. Each verse beautifully captures the essence of seeking solace and strength. Over the years, it has become a beloved choice for funerals, providing a sense of peace and comfort during challenging times.
Lyrics for Abide with Me
Abide with me; fast falls the eventide;
The darkness deepens; Lord, with me abide;
When other helpers fail and comforts flee,
Help of the helpless, O abide with me.
Swift to its close ebbs out life’s little day;
Earth’s joys grow dim, its glories pass away;
Change and decay in all around I see—
O Thou who changest not, abide with me.
I need Thy presence every passing hour;
What but Thy grace can foil the tempter’s power?
Who, like Thyself, my guide and stay can be?
Through cloud and sunshine, Lord, abide with me.
I fear no foe, with Thee at hand to bless;
Ills have no weight, and tears no bitterness;
Where is death’s sting? Where, grave, thy victory?
I triumph still, if Thou abide with me.
Hold Thou Thy cross before my closing eyes;
Shine through the gloom and point me to the skies;
Heaven’s morning breaks, and earth’s vain shadows flee;
In life, in death, O Lord, abide with me.
“Abide with Me” is frequently chosen for funerals due to its comforting message. Its soothing melody and heartfelt lyrics provide peace during sorrowful times, reminding the bereaved that they are not alone. The hymn’s message of divine presence and support is particularly uplifting for families.
If “Abide with Me” resonates with your family, consider incorporating it into the service. It can be sung by the congregation, performed by a soloist, or played instrumentally.
We invite you to explore our extensive collection of popular funeral hymns, heartfelt funeral poems, and meaningful funeral readings. Whether you are seeking comfort, inspiration, or guidance, our resources are here to support you during this difficult time.
